There is nothing more annoying than someone bringing me in a room full of other pregnant people and telling me there "great news". (eye roll) Don't get me wrong, I am thrilled for them, but seriously, if you know someone has been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and you only tried for 3 freaking months.....BE A LITTLE MORE SENSITIVE! At least try to tell them when they are not surrounded by all the other happy pregnant people and then proceed to talk about the glorious occassion and share pregnant stories. But, the worst of all is when I have to hear all about how uncomfortable being pregnant is and how it hurts so much. Suck it up, you have been pregnant for 2 flipping months. People have babies all the time....stop being so dramatic and stop complaining about the one thing I want more than anything. Stop walking around groaning and holding your belly, looking so exasperated. We get it....your pregnant...no need to make a scene everytime you walk in a room.
While we are on the subject: Please don't ask a woman over 30 when she is going to have children. If she wanted you to know, she would have told you. Certainly do not offer your unsolicited advice about how "You should not wait too long....or you may never get pregnant".... or "Your aren't getting any younger." No shit! I know how old I am.
My favorite though is when people give me advice on how to get pregnant. Guess what....I know how it works. I remember that lesson in 6th grade health. I do not need any tips. Don't tell me not to worry so much or to be less stressed. Mind your own business. If I wanted advice, I would ask for it.
Don't tell me "It will happen for you...just be patient." Wow, that really means a lot from someone who got pregnant the first month. You don't know how I feel. You probably never will. Stop trying to pretend you do
While we are on the subject: Please don't ask a woman over 30 when she is going to have children. If she wanted you to know, she would have told you. Certainly do not offer your unsolicited advice about how "You should not wait too long....or you may never get pregnant".... or "Your aren't getting any younger." No shit! I know how old I am.
My favorite though is when people give me advice on how to get pregnant. Guess what....I know how it works. I remember that lesson in 6th grade health. I do not need any tips. Don't tell me not to worry so much or to be less stressed. Mind your own business. If I wanted advice, I would ask for it.
Don't tell me "It will happen for you...just be patient." Wow, that really means a lot from someone who got pregnant the first month. You don't know how I feel. You probably never will. Stop trying to pretend you do
WOW! Remarkable text.
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hahaha....I think I might have been a little dramatic ;-)
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